On my journey I have discovered that we can change to a new perspective. I was unaware of my life patterns and behaviour until about 3 years ago. Let me explain a little of my experiences so you understand the necessity of change. In the future I will write a book called Sink or swim describing my traumas from my conception till now.

We had a lovely family , 2 girls and 2 boys and a lovely home we all enjoyed life. Me and my wife worked together in business and spent most of our time working , volunteering in the community and looking after our children. I was lucky being married to a unbelievably strong lady who was a powerful influence for good on me and the children. But that all changed in 2017 when she lost her fight against cancer at 45 years old.

I knew she was going to die on 23rd December 2014 when we had her diagnosis after a year of painful exploration. The nurse said we are talking years not weeks but those years seemed like days now looking back. When she died at that young age of 45 she left me 19 ,16 ,12 and 11 year old to look after. I am eternally grateful for those precious gifts.

Years of trauma eventually caught up with me and I needed to do something. I wanted to end the pain for me and my children but couldn’t…. So on my quest I directed my energy on myself because I knew it was down to me now alone to change my world .

Read , Read , Read about all problems I faced.

In essence that is the birth of 2020 learning through my quest the information I have gained to share with the world. I don’t know all the answers but through experience and learning in last 3 years I have gained more insight in 50 years.

I am training to be a counsellor professionally and eventually my goal is to have a degree in Psychology. I believe that anyone can change thier negative experiences into a turbocharged energy for the greater good of humanity and themselves.

Let’s learn together.

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